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There are guys out there who like to fuck guys and girls but only fall in love with girls. There's also the difference between being homoamorous and homosexual, heteroamorous and heterosexual, biamorous and bisexual, and various combos of all of the above. Straight-identified women are allowed to be sexual with other women and still identify as straight (%100 even), while men who have sex with other men-even once-spend the rest of their lives being told they're really bisexual or gay because there's no way they could've done that otherwise. Voila: a 100 percent straight guy is having sex on the regular with another dude.) There's also something of a a huge fucking double standard when it comes to straight guys and sexual exploration. (Guy with dick marries woman with vagina, woman transitions to male, couple remains married. A straight guy with a dick could find himself in a relationship with a guy with a vagina. Bless their hearts.)Ī few more wrenches to throw in the werks: There are straight guys who don't have dicks, DICKS. (Straight girls who lecture gay men and 2S guys about how homosexuality works. But while it may be "their truth," per your annoyingly high-minded straight friend, it's not the truth, per you and me, all sensible people everywhere, facts at hand, objective reality, etc. But can those guys still identify as straight? Sure, if that's how they feelz. So I happen to agree with you, DICKS, that a dude who fucks dudes isn't 100% straight. Now most straight-identified dudes who fuck other men aren't in prison, on pirate ships, or at all-boys boarding schools. Am I wrong in thinking the way I do, Dan? Am I closed or dismissive because of my beliefs? What am I missing? I mean, isn't that what that unit of measurement means? 100% means completely, totally, the whole kit and kaboodle, etc. Of course, he can SAY it, a person can SAY anything. But imagine a world where every single person who wasn't "totally straight" just said it at the same time?!Īnyway, my friend was quick to point out that I"m pretty closed for thinking the way I do, for not thinking a 100% straight man can sleep with other men and still refer to himself as straight. My thinking went, ok, but what is so hard for them to just say, "Hey, actually, I"m not 100% straight"?! Obviously, there are lots of reasons why it's hard to do that (history has been very unkind to those who are not completely in the hetero box, there's a lot to lose, I know first hand). I get that everyone has the right to refer to themselves any way they like but I'm not necessarily gonna believe them. That's their self truth, they're still straight." Recently I had a conversation with a friend (she's a straight female, I'm a 2-Spirited one) and she said to me, "Men who are 100% straight can have sex with other men and still call themselves totally straight. Good day Dan, I need your help with something.